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Numbers 30 – Skeptic's Annotated Bible answered

A response and reply to the notes on Numbers 30 in the Skeptic's Annotated Bible (SAB).

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1 And Moses spake unto the heads of the tribes concerning the children of Israel, saying, This is the thing which the LORD hath commanded.

2 If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth.

(30:2) "If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth."
Is it okay to take oaths?
Yes, it is clearly OK to take oaths, see Matthew 5:34 where the author of the SAB reads something different.

3 If a woman also vow a vow unto the LORD, and bind herself by a bond, being in her father’s house in her youth;


(30:3-16) Women are not legally responsible for anything.
"Every vow, and every binding oath to afflict the soul, her husband may establish it, or her husband may make it void."
If a man makes a vow, then God expects him to keep it. But a woman cannot make a vow, unless it is "allowed" by her husband or father. If it is "allowed," then she must keep it -- but even so, she is not responsible (her husband or father is).
Let's take a different situation: can a vice-president make a binding vow on the nation? He clearly cannot. The second in command cannot make the final decision. By the nature of things you cannot have two captains on the ship. Marriage is like so many others situations where there has to be one head. The woman was created to be the help meet of her husband, see Gen. 2:18, not to be in charge.
Let's assume a woman makes a vow to give 50% of the income to God. Can she make such vows and would they be binding? That would lead to chaos wouldn't it? So yes, it's the man's calling to be the head of the household, whether he likes it or not. And his vows are binding, as he is the head. The woman is the subordinate head, and she cannot make binding vows.
The author of the SAB would perhaps like to turn this into a situation where a woman is ``less'' than a man, but that is nonsense. Is the vice-president a lesser man because he is not president? Clearly not. President and vice-president have simply different roles, likewise husband and wife. And both will live a happier life if they walk according to how God has intended marriage.

4 And her father hear her vow, and her bond wherewith she hath bound her soul, and her father shall hold his peace at her: then all her vows shall stand, and every bond wherewith she hath bound her soul shall stand.

5 But if her father disallow her in the day that he heareth; not any of her vows, or of her bonds wherewith she hath bound her soul, shall stand: and the LORD shall forgive her, because her father disallowed her.

6 And if she had at all an husband, when she vowed, or uttered ought out of her lips, wherewith she bound her soul;

7 And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her in the day that he heard it: then her vows shall stand, and her bonds wherewith she bound her soul shall stand.

8 But if her husband disallowed her on the day that he heard it; then he shall make her vow which she vowed, and that which she uttered with her lips, wherewith she bound her soul, of none effect: and the LORD shall forgive her.

9 But every vow of a widow, and of her that is divorced, wherewith they have bound their souls, shall stand against her.

10 And if she vowed in her husband’s house, or bound her soul by a bond with an oath;

11 And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her, and disallowed her not: then all her vows shall stand, and every bond wherewith she bound her soul shall stand.

12 But if her husband hath utterly made them void on the day he heard them; then whatsoever proceeded out of her lips concerning her vows, or concerning the bond of her soul, shall not stand: her husband hath made them void; and the LORD shall forgive her.

13 Every vow, and every binding oath to afflict the soul, her husband may establish it, or her husband may make it void.

14 But if her husband altogether hold his peace at her from day to day; then he establisheth all her vows, or all her bonds, which are upon her: he confirmeth them, because he held his peace at her in the day that he heard them.

15 But if he shall any ways make them void after that he hath heard them; then he shall bear her iniquity.

16 These are the statutes, which the LORD commanded Moses, between a man and his wife, between the father and his daughter, being yet in her youth in her father’s house.